{"id":41627,"date":"2025-03-24T11:23:25","date_gmt":"2025-03-24T07:23:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/?p=41627"},"modified":"2025-03-24T12:22:54","modified_gmt":"2025-03-24T08:22:54","slug":"usaq-d%c9%99rs-etm%c9%99k-ist%c9%99mirs%c9%99-valideyn-n%c9%99-etm%c9%99lidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/?p=41627","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faq d\u0259rs etm\u0259k ist\u0259mirs\u0259, valideyn n\u0259 etm\u0259lidir?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0130\u015fd\u0259n z\u0259ng edib d\u0259rsl\u0259ri xat\u0131rlad\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, amma ax\u015fam ev\u0259 qay\u0131danda g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz ki, u\u015faq h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 kitab\u0131 a\u00e7may\u0131b. T\u0259hdidl\u0259r, t\u0259kidl\u0259r, h\u0259tta m\u00fckafat v\u0259dl\u0259ri d\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 yaram\u0131r. Onda bu \u00fcsul klassik yana\u015fman\u0131 alt-\u00fcst ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018fn\u0259n\u0259vi n\u0259zar\u0259t\u00e7i rolu yerin\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u0259n dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 insan olun. Q\u0259rib\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, m\u0259hz bu yana\u015fma m\u00fcqavim\u0259ti q\u0131r\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mecra.az<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>bu m\u00f6vzunun inc\u0259 m\u0259qamlar\u0131n\u0131 siz\u0259 t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n

T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin: u\u015faq d\u0259ft\u0259ri k\u0259nara qoyur, siz is\u0259 \u201cD\u0259rs\u0259 otur, dedim!\u201d \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 deyirsiniz:<\/p>\n

\u201cYax\u015f\u0131, haz\u0131rsan, m\u0259n k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259r\u0259m. Amma yan\u0131nda oturacam v\u0259 h\u0259r 2 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n bir soru\u015facam: ‘Ba\u015flad\u0131n?’\u201d<\/p>\n

Masan\u0131n arxas\u0131nda oturursunuz, telefon v\u0259 ya kitaba bax\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 arada monoton \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 deyirsiniz: \u201cB\u0259s n\u0259 vaxt ba\u015flay\u0131r\u0131q?\u201d<\/p>\n

10 d\u0259qiq\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259mi\u015f, bu hal u\u015fa\u011fa \u0259n sevm\u0259diyi riyaziyyatdan da dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu halda sizin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z c\u0259za yox, sad\u0259c\u0259 yorucu bir v\u0259rdi\u015f\u0259 \u00e7evrilir v\u0259 u\u015faq onu tezlikl\u0259 bitirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. U\u015faqlar \u00e7ox zaman d\u0259rsd\u0259n yay\u0131naraq \u00f6zl\u0259rini idar\u0259d\u0259 hiss etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Amma siz t\u0259zyiq g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259d\u0259n, eyni zamanda onlar\u0131 t\u0259k buraxmayaraq passiv \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 “orada oldu\u011funuzu” g\u00f6st\u0259rs\u0259niz, art\u0131q \u00fcsyan etm\u0259y\u0259 motivasiyalar\u0131 qalm\u0131r.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n:<\/strong>
\nO\u011flunuz in\u015fa yazmaq ist\u0259mir. Siz is\u0259 deyirsiniz:\u00a0\u201cBa\u015flama\u011fa q\u0259rar ver\u0259nd\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 de. M\u0259n sad\u0259c\u0259 burda oturacam\u201d.<\/p>\n

Yan\u0131nda oturursunuz v\u0259 h\u0259r bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n bir t\u0259krarlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z: \u201cHaz\u0131rsan?\u201d<\/p>\n

15 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n sonra o yazma\u011fa ba\u015flayacaq \u2013 sad\u0259c\u0259 sizin bezdirici suallar\u0131n\u0131za son qoymaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Diqq\u0259t yetirilm\u0259li m\u0259qamlar:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fs\u0259bil\u0259\u015fm\u0259yin v\u0259 istehza etm\u0259yin. \u201cN\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m daha?!\u201d des\u0259niz, metod i\u015f\u0259 yaramaz.<\/p>\n

Neytral olun \u2013<\/strong>\u00a0sanki siz bir canl\u0131 taymersiniz. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015faq \u201cGet burdan!\u201d deyirs\u0259, sakit cavab verin:
\n\u201cS\u0259n d\u0259rs\u0259 oturan kimi \u00e7\u0131xacam\u201d.<\/p>\n

Yard\u0131m etm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259yin. U\u015faq k\u00f6m\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r sad\u0259c\u0259 fon olun. \u018fg\u0259r k\u00f6m\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259rs\u0259, sual verin: \u201cN\u0259yi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259din?\u201d<\/p>\n

Cavab\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz verm\u0259yin, istiqam\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rin:\u00a0\u201cKitabda n\u00fcmun\u0259 var. G\u0259lin onu birlikd\u0259 baxaq.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bu, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 m\u00fcst\u0259qil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259dir.<\/p>\n

\u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u0259hv:\u00a0<\/strong>bu metodu c\u0259za kimi t\u0259qdim etm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

Deyin:\u00a0\u201cS\u0259nin ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131 an m\u0259n burdayam v\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131ram\u201d. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 h\u0259ft\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259ksiniz ki, u\u015faq \u201ct\u0259krar rejimi\u201dnd\u0259n qa\u00e7maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259rsl\u0259r\u0259 daha tez oturma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r (lent.az).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0130\u015fd\u0259n z\u0259ng edib d\u0259rsl\u0259ri xat\u0131rlad\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, amma ax\u015fam ev\u0259 qay\u0131danda g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz ki, u\u015faq h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 kitab\u0131 a\u00e7may\u0131b. T\u0259hdidl\u0259r, t\u0259kidl\u0259r, h\u0259tta m\u00fckafat v\u0259dl\u0259ri d\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 yaram\u0131r. Onda bu \u00fcsul klassik yana\u015fman\u0131 alt-\u00fcst… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":41628,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[48,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41627","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cmiyyt","category-manset"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41627","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41627"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41627\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41629,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41627\/revisions\/41629"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/41628"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41627"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41627"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41627"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}