{"id":3771,"date":"2022-08-11T15:06:17","date_gmt":"2022-08-11T11:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/?p=3771"},"modified":"2022-08-11T15:06:17","modified_gmt":"2022-08-11T11:06:17","slug":"valideyn-suuralti-ovladina-deyir-ki-universitet%c9%99-q%c9%99bul-olmasan-el%c9%99-bil-m%c9%99n-oldum-psixoloq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/?p=3771","title":{"rendered":"\u201cValideyn \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131na deyir ki, universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul olmasan, el\u0259 bil m\u0259n \u00f6ld\u00fcm&#8230;\u201d-Psixoloq"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201c\u0130ll\u0259rdir Az\u0259rbaycanda v\u0259 bir s\u0131ra \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin b\u0259y\u0259ndiyi tip \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k modeli var. Biz \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 travmas\u0131z, xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyil, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin nec\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nirs\u0259, o c\u00fcr \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259yi se\u00e7irik. Bunun da s\u0131ras\u0131nda \u0259g\u0259r \u00f6vlad yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131rsa, o, ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 q\u0259bul olmal\u0131d\u0131r, h\u0259l\u0259 \u00fcst\u0259lik 500-d\u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k bal da toplamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, art\u0131q bir tendensiya hal\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131b\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bunu <strong>M\u0259cra.az<\/strong>-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda psixoloq Zeyn\u0259b Eyyubova deyib. Psixoloq ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 q\u0259bul ola bilm\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rimizin t\u0259zyiq\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalmas\u0131ndan da dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cValideynl\u0259r son \u00fc\u00e7 ili, y\u0259ni 9-10-11-ci sinifd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 h\u0259tta \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259d\u0259n, ya\u015famaqdan, hobbil\u0259rd\u0259n, idmandan m\u0259hrum edib yaln\u0131z haz\u0131rl\u0131q, testl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq v\u0259 ev \u015f\u0259raitind\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131rlar. Meyarlar\u0131 ad\u0259t\u0259n universitet\u0259 daxil olmaqd\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n arzusu, ist\u0259yi n\u0259dir, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc harda g\u00f6r\u00fcr deyil, sad\u0259c\u0259 \u0259sas odur ki, u\u015faq y\u00fcks\u0259k balla ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 q\u0259bul olsun.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3773\" src=\"http:\/\/mecra.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/zeyn\u0259b-x-300x270.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mecra.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/zeyn\u0259b-x-300x270.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mecra.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/zeyn\u0259b-x.jpg 555w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Son d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 haz\u0131rlanan u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nin\u0259, h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 tip olub-olmamas\u0131na, diqq\u0259t \u0259skikliyin\u0259 bax\u0131lm\u0131r v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faq imtahanda az bal toplay\u0131r. Valideyn d\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 bunlar\u0131 deyir ki, s\u0259n universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul olmasan, el\u0259 bil m\u0259n \u00f6ld\u00fcm, m\u0259hv oldum v\u0259 sair. U\u015faq da alt \u015f\u00fcurda buna inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn intihara c\u0259hd edir, ya da hans\u0131sa proses olur v\u0259 sonu faci\u0259yl\u0259 bitir.\u00a0 Bu g\u00fcn valideyn qurmal\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u0259n do\u011fru c\u00fcml\u0259 budur ki, \u201cuniversitet \u00e7ox \u015feydir, amma universitet h\u0259r \u015fey deyil. Daxil olma\u011f\u0131n m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir, amma universitet\u0259 daxil olsan da, olmasan da m\u0259nim ist\u0259kli \u00f6vlad\u0131msan\u201d. Y\u0259ni bu \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259ni imtahan \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa dem\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bunu dem\u0259y\u0259n valideynl\u0259r gerid\u0259 olurlar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259cra.az<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201c\u0130ll\u0259rdir Az\u0259rbaycanda v\u0259 bir s\u0131ra \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin b\u0259y\u0259ndiyi tip \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k modeli var. Biz \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 travmas\u0131z, xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyil, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin nec\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nirs\u0259, o c\u00fcr \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259yi se\u00e7irik. 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