{"id":26111,"date":"2024-01-25T08:38:49","date_gmt":"2024-01-25T04:38:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/?p=26111"},"modified":"2024-01-25T08:38:49","modified_gmt":"2024-01-25T04:38:49","slug":"bizim-kisil%c9%99r-kimd%c9%99ns%c9%99-uzrxahliq-dil%c9%99y%c9%99nd%c9%99-qururlari-tapdanir-psixoloq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/?p=26111","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Bizim ki\u015fil\u0259r kimd\u0259ns\u0259 \u00fczrxahl\u0131q dil\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 q\u00fcrurlar\u0131 tapdan\u0131r&#8230;&#8221;-Psixoloq"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>C\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarm\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu hal onlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 toxunur. H\u0259tta b\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, kimd\u0259ns\u0259, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 arvad\u0131ndan \u00fczr ist\u0259s\u0259, bu, onun m\u0259nliyini al\u00e7aldacaq<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni Tacir \u015eahmal\u0131o\u011flu da verili\u015fl\u0259rin birind\u0259 h\u0259min m\u00f6vzuya toxunaraq qeyd etmi\u015fdi ki, evin ki\u015fisi oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fczr ist\u0259mir v\u0259 \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 arvad\u0131na q\u0131z\u0131l h\u0259diyy\u0259 edir, bununla da xan\u0131m\u0131 onu \u0259fv edir.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259cra.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n m\u00f6vzunu &#8220;Yeni Sabah&#8221;a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda psixoloq G\u00fclnar Orucova \u015f\u0259rh edib:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259k h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fck \u0259lam\u0259ti say\u0131l\u0131r. Bu m\u00f6vzuda ki\u015fi, ya da qad\u0131n f\u0259rqi yoxdur. H\u0259r iki cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ancaq bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 o\u011flanlar\u0131 el\u0259 yeti\u015fdirirl\u0259r ki, \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k al\u00e7almaq dem\u0259kdir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bizim ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 bu bacar\u0131q yoxdur. O c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n bizim ki\u015fil\u0259r kimd\u0259ns\u0259 \u00fczrxahl\u0131q dil\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 q\u00fcrurlar\u0131 tapdan\u0131r v\u0259 san\u0131rlar ki, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri al\u00e7al\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, h\u0259min c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r insana v\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Ekspert vur\u011fulay\u0131r ki, b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maddiyyat \u00f6n plandad\u0131r, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259rinin b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259hvl\u0259rini h\u0259diyy\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259zliy\u0259 vururlar:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Kimins\u0259 ail\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fmaq ixtiyar\u0131m\u0131z yoxdur. Bir ki\u015fi arvad\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259y\u0259 al\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rsa, bel\u0259 d\u0259 davam edir. Ancaq bu, h\u0259r qad\u0131na xas olan x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t deyil. El\u0259 qad\u0131n var ki, h\u0259r hans\u0131sa h\u0259diyy\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ki\u015finin s\u0259hv h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flam\u0131r v\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131b gedir. Lakin b\u0259zi xan\u0131mlar b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259hvl\u0259ri \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259d\u0259n bel\u0259 \u0259fv etm\u0259yi bacar\u0131r v\u0259 daim \u0259rinin yan\u0131nda olur. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar insan\u0131n ail\u0259d\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259y\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 olan inam\u0131na v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fir. Y\u0259ni b\u0259zi insanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maddiyyat h\u0259r \u015feydir. 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H\u0259tta b\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, kimd\u0259ns\u0259, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 arvad\u0131ndan \u00fczr ist\u0259s\u0259, bu, onun m\u0259nliyini al\u00e7aldacaq &nbsp; Qeyd ed\u0259k&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-manset"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26111"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26111\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26113,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26111\/revisions\/26113"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}