\u201cQad\u0131nlar \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r bu q\u0259d\u0259r azad v\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st deyildi. \u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, \u00e7oxlar\u0131m\u0131z azadl\u0131qla \u00f6zba\u015fnal\u0131\u011f\u0131 qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q. B\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar onlara veril\u0259n s\u0259rb\u0259stliyi \u00f6zba\u015fnal\u0131q kimi d\u0259rk edir v\u0259 y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ya\u015fay\u0131r. Soru\u015fanda da deyir ki, h\u0259yat m\u0259nimdir, \u00f6z\u00fcm bil\u0259r\u0259m\u201d.<\/p>\n
M\u0259cra.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu fikirl\u0259ri Bizim.Media-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda psixoloq G\u00fclnar Orucova deyib.<\/p>\n
Yeni formala\u015fan \u201c\u0130kinci arvad\u201d v\u0259 \u201csaxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d trendi<\/p>\n
Azadl\u0131q odur ki, s\u0259ni ist\u0259m\u0259diyin \u015fey\u0259 m\u0259cbur etmirl\u0259r. Lakin, b\u0259zil\u0259ri ona veril\u0259n azadl\u0131qdan bir n\u00f6v sui-istifad\u0259 edir. V\u0259 \u201cazad qad\u0131n\u201d\u0131n ipini y\u0131\u011fa bilm\u0259y\u0259n ail\u0259 sonda ondan \u00fcz \u00e7evirm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131r. \u0130tirm\u0259y\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259yi qalmayan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir qismi h\u0259yat\u0131n dibin\u0259 yuvarlan\u0131r. H\u0259m fiziki, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n m\u0259hv olur. Bir qism \u201cazad qad\u0131n\u201d is\u0259 \u201cqurban\u201d ovuna \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. H\u0259yatda qalmaq v\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imkanl\u0131 v\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u201cpadxod\u201d edirl\u0259r. V\u0259 \u00e7ox zaman da onlar\u0131n \u201cpadxod\u201du al\u0131n\u0131r. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, indi \u00e7ox sayda qad\u0131nlar kiml\u0259rins\u0259 \u201cikinci arvad\u0131\u201d, \u201csaxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201dd\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u00c7irkin v\u0259 ya\u015fl\u0131 M\u0259\u015f\u0259di \u0130badla cavan G\u00fclnaz\u0131n na\u011f\u0131l\u0131<\/p>\n
G\u00fclnar Orucova m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin maraql\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 d\u0259 toxunub:<\/p>\n \u201cYa\u015fl\u0131 v\u0259 \u00e7irkin \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dl\u0259r cavan \u201cg\u00f6z\u0259l\u00e7\u0259l\u0259r\u201d \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259m d\u0259 bir karyera taramplinidir. Bu g\u00fcn \u00e7evr\u0259mizd\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r qad\u0131n var ki, \u201ch\u0259ci\u201d hesab\u0131na populyar m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni, pdod\u00fcsser, psixoloq, aktrisa v\u0259 sair\u0259 olublar. B\u0259zi qad\u0131nlarsa bir q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 ir\u0259li gedib \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dnin ail\u0259sini da\u011f\u0131d\u0131r, \u201cbirinci\u201d arvad\u201d statusu qazan\u0131r. Bax\u0131n, bu g\u00fcn \u00fczd\u0259 olan m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259rin \u00e7oxu kiml\u0259rins\u0259 ikinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u201cQad\u0131nlar \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r bu q\u0259d\u0259r azad v\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st deyildi. \u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, \u00e7oxlar\u0131m\u0131z azadl\u0131qla \u00f6zba\u015fnal\u0131\u011f\u0131 qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q. B\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar onlara veril\u0259n s\u0259rb\u0259stliyi \u00f6zba\u015fnal\u0131q kimi d\u0259rk edir v\u0259 y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ya\u015fay\u0131r. Soru\u015fanda… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14188,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14186"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14186\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14189,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14186\/revisions\/14189"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14188"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mecra.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Pul v\u0259 \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn yolllara ged\u0259n qad\u0131nlardan dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq bildirib ki, \u0259slin\u0259 baxsan, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t eliy\u0259n, normal t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u0259 malik he\u00e7 bir qad\u0131n kimins\u0259 \u201cikinci arvad\u0131\u201d, \u201csaxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d olmaq ist\u0259m\u0259z:<\/q>
\n\u201cLakin, bu reall\u0131qlar\u0131 v\u0259 al\u00e7ald\u0131c\u0131 adlar\u0131 q\u0259bul ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 puldur. Onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevgi, ail\u0259 kimi m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s hisl\u0259r ikinci d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259lidir. \u018fsas odur ki, onu \u201csaxlayan\u201d \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dnin yax\u015f\u0131 imkanlar\u0131 olsun. Pul h\u0259risi olan poz\u011fun qad\u0131n da bax\u0131r ki, ona ist\u0259diyini ancaq ya\u015fl\u0131 v\u0259 \u00e7irkin \u201ch\u0259ci\u201d ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Q\u0259rib\u0259 buras\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dl\u0259r d\u0259 bunun hiyl\u0259 oldu\u011funu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 kompramis\u0259 gedirl\u0259r. B\u0259zi \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dl\u0259r h\u0259tta ondan u\u015faq ist\u0259y\u0259n \u201cg\u00f6z\u0259l\u00e7\u0259l\u0259r\u201d\u0259 \u201cyox\u201d da demir.Baxmayaraq ki, \u201cu\u015faq\u201d sonradan \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dnin gen d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na dar edir\u201d.
\nC\u0259miyy\u0259timiz\u0259 \u201cM\u0259\u015f\u0259di \u0130bad\u201dlar\u0131n v\u0259 \u201cG\u00fclnaz\u201dlar\u0131n vurdu\u011fu z\u0259rb\u0259<\/p>\nBurda bir iyr\u0259nc m\u0259qam da var. B\u0259zi \u201ch\u0259ci\u201dl\u0259r hans\u0131sa m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnini v\u0259 yaxud aktrisan\u0131 \u201csaxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u201d gizl\u0259tmir. V\u0259 \u00e7evr\u0259sin\u0259 h\u0259min qad\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rib deyir ki, \u201cbu m\u0259nim …-dir\u201d . N\u0259 yaz\u0131q ki, h\u0259min qad\u0131n da bunu e\u015fidir, bilir. Amma f\u0259rqin\u0259 varm\u0131r. Onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sas sponsorluqdur.<\/q>
\nBu g\u00fcn m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259rin \u00e7oxu kiml\u0259rins\u0259 \u201cikinci arvad\u0131\u201d v\u0259 yaxud \u201csaxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201dd\u0131r. B\u0259zi m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn kimins\u0259 ikinci, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc xan\u0131m\u0131 olms\u0131n\u0131n he\u00e7 bir f\u0259rqi yoxdur. \u018fsas odur ki, onun ist\u0259kl\u0259rini realla\u015fd\u0131rs\u0131n. H\u0259l\u0259 onu demir\u0259m ki, \u201cm\u00f6vs\u00fcmi \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n\u201d \u201cs\u0259n\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259r\u201dimiz d\u0259 var. Bu g\u00fcn bir m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni efird\u0259n elan edir ki, \u201cfilank\u0259sl\u0259 ail\u0259 qururam\u201d. Bir ay sonra \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b deyir ki, \u201cbizimki al\u0131nmad\u0131\u201d. \u00a0\u018fn pisi d\u0259 odur ki, bunlar televiziyada, m\u0259tbuatda v\u0259 sosial \u00e7\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox geni\u015f \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259\u015fviq olunur. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, indiki g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu m\u0259hz buna g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni v\u0259 yaxud aktrisa olmaq ist\u0259yir\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"